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Greg Utas16-Jul-24 4:24
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Steve Raw16-Jul-24 5:59
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Greg Utas wrote:
violence is a legitimate way to resolve disputes
I apologize for going off topic here. I'm one of those people who believe this.

IMO, violence is to be avoided at all costs. However, it is sometimes a necessary evil that cannot be avoided. If an aggressor presents an immediate physical threat to you, a friend, or a loved one, then not only is it your absolute right to defend yourself and others, but it is your responsibility to do so.

Your defense should be proportional to the threat. If someone slaps you upside the face, don't pull out a gun and start shooting. If someone pulls out a gun and shoots you in the foot, slapping them upside the face isn't a proportional use of self-defense.

When it comes to violence, the only winner is the one who effectively diffuses and de-escalates the conflict before physical action can occur. However, there are many cases in which the violent aggressor cannot be dissuaded by any means. In that situation, you do what is needed to defend yourself and neutralize the threat with a proportional response.

I've been in several situations where an aggressor presented an immediate physical threat. I genuinely feared for my physical safety and in some cases for my life. In the majority of cases, I've been successful in diffusing and de-escalating such situations. Other times, an aggressor has forced violence upon me. In that case, I resort to using my absolute right to defend myself using physical violence.
Greg Utas wrote:
- stealing other people's stuff is alright
I don't think stealing is acceptable in any case. Yet, in some situations, the lines are blurred. If I were to witness a homeless person steal a loaf of bread from the grocery store, I would feel conflicted. Stealing a loaf of bread is wrong, but to deprive anyone of their ability to eat and live isn't right, either.
Greg Utas wrote:
- wars help economies
Sadly, in many cases, war does boost the economy of a country. Taking a look back at history, and reviewing the facts and concrete data, there is no way to argue against the evidence.

Is it an absolute truth that war helps boost a country's economy? No. Think of Ukraine. They're at war. Is their economy boosted because of it? Nope. Consider the war between Israel and Hamas. What's the state of the economy in Gaza? Not too good.

Again, I apologize for going off-topic. I Just feel that I had to say that.
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