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leckey wrote: Exactly where is the line of harassment and stalking?
I almost put this in my previous post, but what you've said makes it much more relevant -
Chris, the way leckey, one of the few women here, is being treated is simply unacceptable. It certainly does seem like stalking to me and it's gone beyond inappropriate.
It has become appallingly obvious that our technology has exceeded our humanity. - Albert Einstein
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As I said, keep in mind I've said my share of nasty things. I heard "I hope I never get on your bad side" more than once. I hate being singled out as a woman, or looking like I can't hold my own. (Not that I do not appreciate your comments.) I say, just cut the one I hate and monitor his behavior. If he continues harrassing me, then look at banning when necessary. I don't want to make tons of work for the CP team.
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I haven't followed any of this to the soapbox. But if you feel you're being harrassed, or feel threatened, then I would print out the messages and contact your local police department. It's more than what Chris and staff can help you with. Your police can/will contact the local authorities in his jusidiction, talk to him and maybe that would end it.
Again, I don't know much of what you're saying but since it's internet related, the FBI can also be contacted with complaints of harrasement, etc.
Don't let it get to you. It's just some creep on a keyboard somewhere. But if it makes you feel better and secure, shout out to the proper authorities.
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leckey wrote: Exactly where is the line of harassment and stalking?
IMHO, he went over the line a long time ago and he won't stop as long as he's allowed to get away with it. AFAIK, you are the first woman who has posted in SB more than once or twice. It seems that makes you fair game for every sick fantasy he's ever had.
Jon
Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface
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Oh, I understand he's sick. At one point it was fun to play with, now it's somewhat scary. I hate being singled out for being a girl, but I think it's because of that why I'm in the cross-hairs of his fantasies. Again, when is it really harassment or stalking? Today I recorded three others that he blatently called names. When is it abuse? The Terms and Conditions can be very grey.
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I don't mean this to come across as cold or non-caring, but Chris and his company aren't in the business of litigation. Like I stated in my previous post, contact authorities. You shouldn't feel scared or harrassed by any means. Don't worry about the others he called names. That's not your problem or concern. Address your problem and only yours.
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I totally get what you are saying and I don't feel it was cold or anything like that. I'm just going to see what happens over the next few days. The individual in question has shown a lack of intelligence so I don't think he's going to quit his fry job and try to follow me. He doesn't even bother me on my own blog, because he's so desperate for an audience. But I will have my guard up.
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I just wanted to make sure you didn't think my comments were cold and un-caring. I care, so I try to help.
I've read the individuals posts. Some seemed fine, others were way out there. Bigotry (opinions) is one thing (personal opinion and we're all entitled to it), but violence and/or intimidation is another.
Just don't think that keeping your guard up is good enough. You never know the extent of what some whack-o jobs will go through. That's why I feel that if you're keeping your guard up, you need to have some support if there's ever a problem. As you probably know, there's a big difference between having something documented and having nothing at all.
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It's a ton easier if you just click the 'Report Message' link.
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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We've tried this with other chronic trouble makers. The threshhold is too high, and it doesn't accomplish anything that oneing doesn't lready.
You know, every time I tried to win a bar-bet about being able to count to 1000 using my fingers I always got punched out when I reached 4....
-- El Corazon
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I concur, but it's probably more fun to delete and quash each attempt. After a few, he'll probably move on, frustrated!
I'm sure it's like whack-a-mole. But how many moles can you possibly have? A few of those would be fun. But some thing tells me you have more than just a couple.
Cheers!
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Hi
This [^] article has a comment by Ravi Bhavnani that links to another article, but the URL seems to have not been updated. When this link is clicked, I get the page not found message, not the "likely location is" page...
Thanks
Chandra
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Fixed
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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What do you think if we have a security forum on the codeproject and I think it will be helpful for us.
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If there is enough interest, then yes
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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Does the beta chart of "Article page views by day" include spider probes? If it does, is there any way to not include those? On many of my articles, the chart looks like a sine curve.
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No spiders included
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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Hans Dietrich wrote: Does the beta chart of "Article page views by day"
Ok maybe I'm blind, but where can I find that chart
Mostly, when you see programmers, they aren't doing anything. One of the attractive things about programmers is that you cannot tell whether or not they are working simply by looking at them. Very often they're sitting there seemingly drinking coffee and gossiping, or just staring into space. What the programmer is trying to do is get a handle on all the individual and unrelated ideas that are scampering around in his head. (Charles M Strauss)
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It's a beta feature available to Gold level authors only at this point
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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There has been a worrying rise in the number of racial slurs appearing on CP lately, and extraordinarily not in the Soapbox. Worse yet, the cult of personality is clearly in effect as these comments are never stamped on or treated with the derision they deserve.
I've heard the "It's just my sense of humour" excuse, and this just doesn't cut the mustard: what we have here is plain, old-fashioned bigotry. It needs to be stopped.
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martin_hughes wrote: I've heard the "It's just my sense of humour" excuse
It's probably meant with sincerity because what I've found is that many people who are inherently racist do not know this and think they are just being humorous. That's why they get mad and jump at you if you casually suggest that perhaps their joke wasn't really so funny and how it may have been a tad on the racist side.
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Vote the messages as inappropriate and reply with a simple "that's inappropriate". If the behaviour continues I'll step in, but I would also like the community to self-police in a mature manner.
cheers,
Chris Maunder
CodeProject.com : C++ MVP
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Chris Maunder wrote: but I would also like the community to self-police in a mature manner.
Nice willing, but the problem is that it implies common sense from all users and... I better don't continue
Greetings.
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M.D.V.
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
“The First Rule of Program Optimization: Don't do it. The Second Rule of Program Optimization (for experts only!): Don't do it yet.” - Michael A. Jackson
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What follows next? No more jokes that depend on a punchline like "I wished for a chick with a big ass?" No more threads about overweight men? No more criticism of radical muslims when they become suicide bombers as an expression of religious freedom? And no use of language like "illegal aliens," right?
I agree sometimes the jokes are hurtful and sometimes it's legit to question whether the attempt to be humorous is only an excuse. But I don't see how Chris can spend all day making sure everything that's said doesn't offend anyone. Humor requires someone to be the butt of a joke. If you can laugh at a dumb blonde joke, you shouldn't cry at a dumb Pole joke.
Jon
Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface
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It's the blatantly offensive comments such as "Offering a ham sandwich to a starving Muslim" and "[Is there] Intelligent life in India" I object to.
There is a world of difference between discussion and criticism on immigration, radicalised Islam, politics, religion etc. and those examples I gave above. The two are not in the slightest bit the same.
Oakman wrote: Humor requires someone to be the butt of a joke.
That's the kind of excuse the likes of Bernard Manning, Jim Davidson and Roy "Chubby" Brown used when they went on stage and talked about "Thieving Pakis" and "Stupid Blacks". Not in the slightest bit funny, and deeply offensive. You'll notice how the "someone" morphs into an entire race of people very easily.
Oakman wrote: But I don't see how Chris can spend all day making sure everything that's said doesn't offend anyone.
Well I'm going to follow his advice above. I expect I'll get flamed. A lot. But at least I'll have contributed something worthwhile to the site.
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