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Quote: Love hurts
Love scars
Love wounds and marks
Any heart not tough or strong enough
To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud, it holds a lot of rain
Love hurts
Ooh love hurts
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Sorry to hear. I am a bit of a loner myself, but managed to find someone. 20+ years marriage. 2 teenage children.
It will happen if you want it to.
It seems you have a positive attitude about things, so that is good.
Cheers.
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Slacker007 wrote: It will happen if you want it to I don't want kids, I prefer winter to summer (hate the beach), I'm an evening/night person, I'm an introvert and I prefer staying inside to going outside.
To top it off, I don't believe in marriage, but that's an opinion I'm willing to let go as I've found out that's most girls biggest dream for some reason.
So far I mostly match with two women, my mom and my grandma
It's a really unpopular set of opinions and character traits (especially with the girls).
And it's also difficult to find people like that because, like me, they prefer to spend their time alone at home
I was at a party recently and I spoke to a girl who was speechless about me not liking the summer and looking forward to autumn, she literally said "wow, I've never heard anything like that before and I don't know what to say."
I don't even mention the kids thing anymore because that usually just gets me a lot of hate (and unfortunately, it's one of the first things women ask on dating apps).
At my age (31) it's particularly difficult to find a nice girl as most people are settling, marrying and starting a family.
After my last two relationships (the last being almost six years ago already) I decided I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person, but perhaps maybe I'll find someone someday.
Slacker007 wrote: It seems you have a positive attitude about things, so that is good. About pretty much everything except finding a girl (and humanity in general)
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Well, at least you know what you want. Most people never allow themselves to discover that, and end up living a miserable life.
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The point isn't to list every possible option for spending 3 hours uninterrupted.
The point is to see which of these limited choices you'd typically make. And yes, it's a deliberately narrow set of choices.
cheers
Chris Maunder
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at least have a "none" or other. Every poll needs an out, or you are stuck in an infinite loop of "none apply" but can't select that, so can't answer poll.
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"Sitting and Thinking" is basically the "None" option.
Again: it's deliberately limited.
cheers
Chris Maunder
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I cannot do anything for 3 hours in one go. Besides not doing anything. I'm pretty good at that.
modified 6-Aug-19 5:47am.
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one of the privileges of working from the home office.
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Exactly, how can they even forget this option!?
The sh*t I complain about
It's like there ain't a cloud in the sky and it's raining out - Eminem
~! Firewall !~
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My thoughts as well. Boggles the mind, I tell you.
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Is that you code name for a can of beer?
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Um, no. I don't drink alcohol.
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That's when Isaac Newton did his best work.
Still he didn't have the modern plethora of interruptions, only the occasional falling apple.
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I would see a film, and read a book or do nothing with the rest of the 3 hours.
or
I would read a book for the whole 3 hours
M.D.V.
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modified 5-Aug-19 2:53am.
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I can't pick anything from the list as it this week even lacks a "other" option...
What about "talking a walk" or ANYTHING that make you leave the house? Whoever created those questions... Your horizon doesn't cross or even reach the border of your home, hm?
Doesn't anyone cross-check those surveys before the get published?
If silence is my only companion, which is very high ranked in my personal list of perfect things, I'd most likely go through my steam collection and pick a logic puzzle game, something like "The Room" or "The Talos principle" and enjoy solving puzzles.
But if the mood is right in that moment it's also possible that I'd write another episode of my fantasy-shorts. I am a hobby writer and I have spent many hours with the grumpy Dwarf and his mad Gnome friend, two characters I created many years back when I played WoW on a RP Server. Their story didn't ever let me go, so one day, years after I quit WoW, I started to write some adventures for them.
Beside the fact, that the characters were created during my active WoW time, the stories have nothing to do with the world of WoW. They are settled in my own fantasy world I created while writing the adventures. It's just in my head, that they have their origins in Azeroth. Not in the stories.
And... maybe I'd even go outside. Take a long walk through the woods (I live near a big national park, pure nature). Scary, I know. But... there *is* a world outside the house. I've seen it. Been there.
There is a very nice clearing with some banks and a wooden table about 45 Minutes from my home. I have taken my Notebook more than once to that place and have written more than one episode with the Dwarf on that place. Very inspiring, writing a fantasy story while I am really out in the woods, hear the sounds of the birds and insects... hear the wind in the trees...
Yes... while I write this, I feel the mood coming... As I am currently on vacation and right now, in this moment, I DO HAVE such a time frame of several hours just for me (my wife's at work... poor little sweety ) ... I think I take my notebook now and go out.
Thanks for that inspiration
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Mike Barthold wrote: I started to write some adventures for them.
Beside the fact, that the characters were created during my active WoW time, the stories have nothing to do with the world of WoW. They are settled in my own fantasy world I created while writing the adventures. It's just in my head, that they have their origins in Azeroth. Not in the stories. To be read or still composing?
M.D.V.
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
Rating helpful answers is nice, but saying thanks can be even nicer.
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It's designed like a TV series. I am currently still writing Season 1, it will have 8 or 9 episodes, maybe #8 is just a double-length season finale.
Currently 4 episodes are done, the fifth almost.
When I have season 1 complete I will publish it on amazon kindle.
depending on the feedback and sales I will write a season 2 ... or not.
I just have to make sure, that, while the season finale resolves the open threads, there is enough of a cliffhanger, to make you want more
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Sounds good... tell us when you are done
M.D.V.
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
Rating helpful answers is nice, but saying thanks can be even nicer.
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Where's the option for doing nothing? Just relax and recuperate.
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It's the option of not selecting anything.
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