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Jeremy Falcon10-Sep-24 13:23
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dandy729-Sep-24 5:46
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I'll simply say winners make their own luck. Losers complain.


DING DING DING!! This guy gets it.

(and in the following, when I say "you", I certainly don't mean you personally. I know you're smart enough to realize that)

I think that's the fundamental idea here. Some people are satisfied enough claiming life just dealt them a bad hand and run with that, but ultimately everyone has to take responsibility for their own destiny. Of course there's exceptions (for one, I wouldn't want to have been born in North Korea), but when one lives in the so-called land of opportunity, he only has himself to blame for his own outcome.

True, some happen to have things fall on their lap. They're in the extreme minority however, and it's delusional to expect the same to happen to you. You can't use that as an example for what to expect. You want something? Work for it. Not reaching your goals? Turns out you didn't want it badly enough, in spite of your beliefs. You didn't have the balls to make the tough choices and decided to take the easier path.

It's like people spending their lives blaming their parents for the way they turned out. No, at some point, you grow into an adult and your day-to-day decisions are your own.
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