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Steve Raw14-Oct-24 2:51
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Nelek14-Oct-24 4:54
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Steve Raw17hrs 41mins ago
professionalSteve Raw17hrs 41mins ago 
Yes, I understand. That's well said. If Dave had communicated his request in a genuine way, and not in a way that violates the rules of this forum, it may have been OK. I too enjoy sharing with others what projects I may be working on, and people may come to the incorrect conclusion about what my intentions are in doing so. In sharing my work, there's no benefit to me in any way. If I were looking to gain something by sharing my work, then I would advertise it properly.

As I mentioned in my previous post, I'm well experienced in advertising and marketing. I've managed marketing and advertising campaigns for Fortune 1000 companies with million-dollar budgets. I know how to get the word out in the proper way.
Nelek wrote:
In addition: you bringing more attention to something that could have just stayed like that, has only made it worse.
I understand. I think if Dave's post was out-of-line to the extent that it required deletion, then it would have been removed very early on. That would send the message to me that my joking around isn't appreciated.
Nelek wrote:
In addition: you bringing more attention to something that could have just stayed like that, has only made it worse.
And you are getting really close to the limit of what I consider trolling. I ask you to stop, please.
Certainly. As soon as I saw that others didn't see the humor in my playing around with Dave, and the word "troll" was brought up, I discontinued everything. I apologize to anyone who may have not appreciated my playing around with poor Dave. It was all in jest, and I certainly can't expect everyone to find humor in what I'm doing.

This site has members from all over the world. It's a well-establish fact that in large part, someone in country "A" will find no humor (or even find offense) in what someone from country "B" finds to be hilarious. Add on the fact that textual communication strips out 80% of all language that would be conveyed in comparison to what a face-to-face interaction provides to its participants, and that's how problems start. Hence, any attempt at humor in this environment is bound to result in friction most of the time, regardless of context.

If I ever get to a point where it's more of an annoyance than an expression of humor, then I stop. That's my rule. It can be a blurred line, and once I realize that it's unwelcome behavior to others, it loses its humor to me. I'm not out to cause trouble, strife, grief, or anything else that is seen as unwelcome.
Nelek wrote:
And you are getting really close to the limit of what I consider trolling. I ask you to stop, please.
Absolutely. I respect your request and I take it seriously. I appreciate your assertive and honest message. Without such feedback, I may not realize that what's hilarious to me, is an annoyance to others. That assertive communication is important, and I would much rather see someone express their grievance, than to keep quiet and tolerate what they do not appreciate, find annoying, or inappropriate/offensive.

I apologize to you, and anyone else who may feel the same way. If in the future, my joking around ever bothers you in a legitimate way, then certainly speak up so that I know.
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RantWhat framework is this extraordinarily obnoxious "Legitimate Interest" cookie screen, and are there any browser add-ons that defeat them? Pin
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