You can host your birthday card in a static web page (i.e. one that ends in .html); and put this page on a free hosting site. Simply send people the link to the .html page.
Now, there is a gotcha here - the webserver needs to recognise the mime types of the Silverlight control so that it can serve it up. Fortunately, there is a workaround - you can find details
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